I cannot believe this is happening. I am officially kissing my 20’s goodbye today and can officially call myself a 30-something. The last decade has been a ride – I spent half a decade in school and most of it (9 years) working – but no matter how bad it was, I feel my life it’s just now getting bright.
Honestly, I had imagine my life be different by now. I thought I’d be married, no kids because I don’t want any due to my health conditions. I thought I’d at least find a friend or a partner or something. Instead, I have my mom who thinks I can never do anything right, a nosy aunt who pinched my arm the last time I saw so she could tell me my arm is too flappy, and another aunt who’s a crazy hugger.
Oh and I tried many methods to find that friend including online dating which just showed me how desperate these dudes were and why they can’t find a lady friend.
Anyway, it’s time to stop dwelling on the past and move on. Maybe fate will eventually intervene and find me a compatible partner but until then, I guess I’ll blow out my 30 candles and go celebrate.
happy birthday
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Happy birthday! 🎂🎉🎈🎁🥳
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Thank you. 🙂
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You’re welcome ☺️
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Happy birthday. Keep your chin up, keep traveling, keep blogging, and keep believing something wonderful is about to happen. Life is funny sometimes, Trust me… Donna.
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Many happy returns Yinglan. Your partner is out there, you just haven’t met them yet! I was 31 before I met mine and almost 35 before I married him. I had given up on looking, because you’re right. Those on-line dudes are desperate and more often than not creepy too. 🎂🎂🎂
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Thank you. Wow, that makes me feel better. 😀
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Happy birthday, Yinglan. Enjoy the most.
Life’s all about living fullest.
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Happy 30th!🎉
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Wishing you a very Happy Birthday! ❤
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Many congratulations!
Enjoy your 30s because the 40s will be with you in no time 🙂
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Thank you.
Noooo…. don’t say that, I’m not looking forward to that.
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Happy Birthday. Hammad is pretty much right. I’m sorry to say you’ll see. Just enjoy the ride and age won’t matter.
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Happy Birthday! The best is yet to come. Relax, you’re still young. You make your life full of joy. When you do, you’ll attract the same in a suitable partner. Take Care
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Thank you. I will try to make the most of it. 🙂
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Happy birthday! It will eventually come, whatever your heart’s desire is. You don’t have to look for it, it will come unexpectedly. Happy birthday! 🎂🎉
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Oh yeah, 30s are a wonderful time. Happy birthday and wishing you all the best! And that relative telling you you’re fat is such a typical Asian thing to do, coming from a half-Chinese family myself.
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Happy BDay💐🌹🎂
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Happy birthday! Things will fall into place, I promise you. I am 29, I’m starting my degree tomorrow, working part time from tomorrow also (18 hrs/week) and trying my hardest to get my life properly on track. You’ll meet those people, whether on or offline. All I can do is which you the very best of luck in life and I hope it all works out for you!
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Thank you and good luck with your schooling and work.
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Wooow, happy belated birthday ❤️
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Thank you. 🙂
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Happy birthday and welcome to the dirty thirties hahaha
Cheeers
~B
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Haha! 😀 Thank you.
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