Hello December 2025!


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Reflection on the Weekend


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Why I’m Refusing to travel


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Hello October 2025!


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Tantrum


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Thinking About Food


This week, I want to pose a question: do you spend your days thinking about food? I don’t mean thinking about what to cook for the next meal or when you’re hungry. I mean like you’re always on the hunt on food, like a hunter-gatherer, like you’re always on the hunt for free food and food, in general. Do you consider this to be a kind of obsessive behavior?

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Stop Talking, Start Listening


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Hello September 2025!


I was supposed to do this yesterday but my brain was absolutely fried after a marathon of driving. I feel like long-distance driving is an absolute test of one’s endurance, just like running a marathon.

Anyway, hello September 2025! I am strangely looking forward to this month. Maybe because it’s my birthday month and even though I do not like the thought of knowing I’ll be another year older before the end of the month, I feel it’s something that’s inevitable for not only me but for everyone.

I mentioned in the intro I did a marathon drive over the weekend. Even after fulfilling the crazy idea in early August, my mom is still not giving up on her dream of winning the lottery. In my opinion, if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. I got dragged into driving to Evanston, Wyoming again on Saturday to buy lottery tickets. So round trip was about 140 miles and after running some errands, it was nearly 200 miles.

Then on Sunday, I got dragged again into driving to Crater of the Moon National Monument in southern Idaho with her sisters in the back seat. This time, we hiked the Big Crater. Along the way, as I drove, her sisters slept, missing all the beautiful scenery along the way. When they’re not asleep, one of the sisters would ask, “Are we there yet?” I just about wanted to kick her out of the car for asking such a question. When she’s not asking stupid questions, she’s stuffing her mouth with food.

It was the second time I did the 500-mile round trip in a day. The first time was early August. By the time I got home, I just wanted to get into bed and sleep off the giant headache I got from driving exhaustion. I typically enjoy driving but this was too much.

Anyway, I feel like I’ve spent every weekend in August driving to the border towns in Wyoming and Idaho and I hope this doesn’t repeat in September.

The garden felt very static in August, like not much happened, just watering and fertilizing. I began planting the fall and winter vegetables sporadically because I don’t want everything to come to fruition at once. I am trying to also practice succession planting, waiting for the plants to size up before planting the next batch as well as making sure everything is alive and well. If something needs replacing, then I’ll put a replacement plant in its place.

Here are a couple of my favorite garden photos from August.

As I mentioned, September is my birthday month and for the first time ever, I’m taking two days off for my birthday and not because I’m going somewhere special, but because I want give myself time to rest and recharge. The other thing I’m looking forward to in September would be the work activity I’m going to do with the department.

We are going to take a pottery class and make a cup, a bowl, or a vase. I haven’t played with clay since middle school and even then, I never got to make anything with the pottery wheel. So I’m looking forward to seeing what I’ll make.

Vertigo


I have vertigo.

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Hello August 2025!


I don’t know whether you can feel it but July, at least for me, is one of the toughest months to get through next to, of course, December and January. So what the days are long, it’s hot to the point that going outside means getting charred by the sun’s UV rays no matter how thick of a layer of sunscreen I lather on my skin.

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Hello July 2025!


There goes June. Bye bye June, and hello July!

I am going to miss June just a tiny bit, just because I am now another month toward my first frost date. This means I should start thinking about the fall garden and all the things I need to plant before the colder months come to settle.

I actually sowed some Swiss Chard last night. The package said it’ll take 14-21 days to germinate, so I’m guessing by the time it matures, we should be nearing autumn. I’ve never grown Swiss Chard before nor have I tasted it but I’ve been told these are pretty hardy plants. Hopefully, I can grow it during the winter months. I’ve also begun harvesting my cherry tomatoes these last few days. I’m only getting 1-2 tomatoes off of a single plant but that’s a good start of what’s to come.

How to describe June 2025?

There are so many words I want to use to describe the month of June. One of them would be adventurous because I got to go on a road trip and visit some of the most remote places in the US. I still cannot believe I got to drive one of the most beautiful roads I’ve ever been on again. It was the second time I’ve driven on Highway 95 – a scenic byway in Utah that showcases some of the most majestic scenery in the state. I would do it again in a heartbeat.

New Mexico also had some pretty scenery but nothing compared to Utah. The only thing I didn’t enjoy about New Mexico was the need to pass through the city of Albuquerque. Even Santa Fe wasn’t as bad and I do not recommend following Google Maps into the city. The city streets were so narrow that even in my rental compact SUV, I felt claustrophobic navigating the tight streets.

The other word I would use to describe the month of June would be chaotic. My emotions have been very chaotic for the past month, to the point where I was having an existential dilemma, as you’ve witnessed in yesterday’s post. Being with my mom is not easy, especially when I’m in a car all day and then in a motel room all night with her.

Even though she won’t admit it, she likes ordering people around. “Turn left, turn right, change lane, why are you changing lanes, I didn’t tell you to change lane.” At times during the road trip, when I got stuck behind a slow truck, part of me just want to zoom past the truck but wasn’t in the mood to be lectured. Sometimes, I do wonder if she cares about anyone’s emotions but her own.

Anyway, what to look forward to in July?

There’s a long-weekend this week as we celebrate America’s 249th birthday on Friday. I’m wanting to do a solo road trip soon, just somewhere close by. I’ve been researching some of Utah’s scenic backways, which I find it’s more beautiful than byways. So hopefully I get to do that.

#WeekendCoffeeShare – Venting out of Politeness


Happy Saturday and Summer Solstice! A big thanks to Natalie of Natalie the Explorer for hosting WeekendCoffeeShare.

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Sunday Poser #233 – Speaking Up


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Sunday Poser #232 – Traveling?


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Sunday Poser #231 – Doing it myself


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Sunday Poser #230 – Personality Shifts


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Sunday Poser #226 – Life Changing Event


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Sunday Poser #222 – Regret for Anger Outburst


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#WeekendCoffeeShare – Health and Garden Update


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#WeekendCoffeeShare – Receiving Praises at Work and more Garden Harvests


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Idiot!


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Losses over the Weekend


I lost two of my tallest sunflowers over the weekend.

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#WeekendCoffeeShare – Job Training and New Job Application


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