5 Things I’m thankful for in 2022

Happy Thanksgiving! Each year, despite how sh***y the year has been, I try to write down at least 5 things I am thankful for that year.

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My First Christmas Part 3

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My First Christmas Part 2

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My First Christmas Part 1

Did I ever mentioned my very first Christmas was when I was 10-year-old?

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Thanksgiving 2021 – Things I’m thankful for…

It’s Thanksgiving week in the U.S. Each year, I try to do a post where I list out some of the things I’m thankful for.

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Short Story: Christmas Spirits Rising

Emma moaned as she rolled over and pressed herself against her husband’s chest. It’s Christmas Eve and for the first time since moving into their new apartment, she and her husband finally got to sleep in together. They are both ER surgeons and neither of them is ever home at the same time. Neither of them wanted to get up, all they wanted at that moment was just to sleep for as long as they could or until the dull thud at the foot of their bed woke them.

Emma rolled over and sighed. Peeking at the time on her alarm clock, she whined, “Come on. Really? 8:30?” She rubbed her eyes, “Can’t I get some sleep ’round here?”

Her husband, Richard, groaned groggily. “What is it?” The thud grew louder and he bolted up, suddenly wide awake. “What was that?”

Emma swung her robe over her shoulders and hopped off the bed. Richard did the same. At the foot of the bed, they discovered a wrinkly cardboard box with a big red sticker on top. The white letters on the sticker read, “Open me, if you dare” Emma and Richard exchanged a quick nervous glance.

Richard made a move to open the box but Emma slapped his hands away. “Are you crazy?” She hissed.

“What? Don’t you want to find out what it is?”

“No.” Emma regret her answer slightly after it came out of her mouth. She was a little curious but she was afraid to admit it. At the same time, bad thoughts crept into her brain. What if it’s a bomb? What if it’s one of Richard’s pranks? She wondered. Richard did play a lot of prank during their college days. “Maybe I’m just a tad curious?”

“Then let’s find out.” Richard said. She grabbed one of the flaps of the box while Richard grabbed another flap and on the count of three, they pulled the flaps back and propelled backward by the force as the little white furry creature sprang from the box.

The creature wore pointy shoes, had large googly eyes, and a wide smile, revealing its only two teeth. “What are you?” Richard nearly shouted.

The creature cleared its throat and answered in a squeaky voice. “I am Noel, Santa’s elf.”

Richard shot Emma a look as if mentally saying to her, “I thought elves were tiny people, not this prehistoric-era-like creature.”

“You don’t believe me, do you?” Noel asked. “That’s because you’re not seeing my true form. It’s what happens when you don’t have the spirit of Christmas in ya.” Noel cluck his tongue, “People these days, they only care about shopping for Christmas and work. Your lacking of Christmas spirit is causing us elves trouble. Lots and lots of trouble.”

“How so?” Richard frowned.

“We elves depend on Christmas spirit. It’s where we get the energy to make presents each Christmas.” He retrieved a thermometer that seemed to be too large to fit in the lining of his jacket. “You see this spirit meter? It’s low on Christmas spirit.”

“Well, it can’t be just us.” Richard said.

Noel nodded. “You’re right, it’s not just you. Elves are being dispatched everywhere on Christmas Eve. We need to raise enough spirit for next year.”

“Don’t you think you’re holding the expectation just a bit too high? I mean, we’re so busy with our lives each day and to have just one day to be with each other and sleep in. Is that so wrong?” Emma said. “This doesn’t mean we don’t have Christmas spirit, it just mean we are choosing to celebrate the holiday a different way. Besides, isn’t being with one other part of the spirit of Christmas?”

“I’m afraid it’s not enough.” Noel replied.

“Then what is it that you need?” Emma asked.

“Ya know, the little things. Window decorations, Christmas trees, lights, meal with the family. Those will up my spiritometer.”

Emma looked around the room and then at Richard. “I guess we can decorate the windows and maybe bake some cookies. Would that satisfy your spiritometer?” Noel nodded. “Then you’ll leave us alone?” Noel nodded again. She again glanced at Richard and sighed, “Come on, Rich. If that’s what it take.”

Richard spent the day shopping for Christmas decoration while Emma stayed home baking cookies. She considered herself an amateur cook. After several frustrating attempts at making cookies, Emma felt her Christmas spirit dwindle. She even slammed the baking tray hard on the counter. “Don’t give up, miss. You almost got it this time.” Noel encouraged when Emma became enrage.

At last, after about the tenth try, a batch of rich chocolate cookies came out of the oven. “There,” Emma piled the cookies on the plate, “did that do anything to your spiritometer?” Noel showed her the large thermometer, it had risen a trace. “Still? What does it take to raise it up?”

“You just want me to disappear, is that what you want? You cannot be frustrated. Your frustration just makes it worse.” Emma placed her hand at her hip. Noel hopped off the chair and walked into the living room. “Okay, maybe cooking isn’t exactly your forté. Let’s wait until Richard comes back with the decorations.”

“In the meantime, why don’t you tell me more about yourself? I only know your name and you’re Santa’s elf.”

“I have a wife and three kids and I am a doctor at the North Pole.” Emma raised her brow. An elf doctor? He was going to say more but the door burst open and Richard staggered into the apartment, juggling two boxes in his arms.

The second he got into the living room, he half-dropped, half-threw the boxes on the floor. Out of breath, he pointed at the door and heaved. “There is one…more.”

About half hour later, a rectangular box laid open between them, inside were lights, ornaments, and sections of an artificial Christmas tree. “Now all you have to do is put it together.” Emma and Richard glared at Noel, who immediately threw his hands up. “I’m just saying.”

As the day wore on, the apartment living room became more and more colorful. The pre-lit tree stood in one corner and strings of lights hung along the windowsill. While Richard hung the lights and applied his finishing touch to the living room, Emma brought out the camera from one of the boxes and began taking pictures, admiring the decoration. As she snapping away, she became oblivious of the elf’s presence and began laughing at ease.

“Ah, finally finished.” Richard declared. He took a few steps back, admiring his work. “What do you think, honey?” He asked Emma.

“It’s beautiful. What do you think, Noel?” No response. “Noel?” They looked around. The elf was gone, nowhere to be seen. Instead, there was a note on the kitchen counter addressing to them.

Dear Emma and Richard,

Great work on the decorations! Thank you for raising your Christmas spirits and saving North Pole. 

Merry Christmas, 


The two of them glanced at each other and then at the decoration. The camera still hung at Emma’s chest, she said. “You know, it sure was a wonderful relaxing day.” Richard nodded. For the remainder of the night, they just stood there, held hands and admired the lights.

There are plenty to be thankful for, even in 2020

2020, what a year, right? So many things happened this year – pandemic, earthquakes, on-and-off mask mandates, wind storms, social gathering restrictions… but even in this weird pandemic universe we’re living in where Mondays and Fridays are just another day, giving thanks is still an everyday-must and a definite-must on Thanksgiving.

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Here are my 5 major thanks for 2020:

  • My job – my biggest thank. My job has kept me occupied even if I have to learn new roles and work crazy amount of overtime hours. It kept me busy and my anxiety at bay because I kept wondering if this pandemic would turn into some kind of Zombie Apocalypse where everyone turns into zombies after getting tested positive for this virus.
  • I’m thankful I haven’t had a problem with paying my bills and mortgage this year as working overtime has generated quite a bit of extra income.
  • I’m thankful for the art of crochet. It also kept me occupied during 2020. I am now more prepared for winter than I ever was in past years with hand-made scarves, hats, and a wonderful fashionable cowl.
  • I’m thankful for finally investing in a stand-up desk so my back will be straight when this whole thing’s over and we’re back in the office.
  • I’m thankful for all the audiobooks and podcasts that kept me entertained as I went through my workday. As of this week, I’ve listened to over 70 audiobooks this year.

Last but not least, I want to thank all the readers of this blogs who followed me through the years. Even though I’ve been away for most of 2020, some of my long-time readers would occasionally comment to check up on me. I am thankful for the thoughtfulness and to have a great bunch of friends in this ever changing blogging universe.

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

The Meaning of Christmas

I spent this Christmas Eve sitting in my car in a near-empty mall parking lot, calling the only person that would understand my situation while listening to the rain peter-patter on the roof of my car. Continue reading “The Meaning of Christmas”

Thanksgiving 2017

Thanksgiving 2017 began one-half day earlier for me than for most people because I took Wednesday afternoon off from work. Continue reading “Thanksgiving 2017”

50 Things To Be Grateful For in 2016

Merry Christmas Eve Everyone! Continue reading “50 Things To Be Grateful For in 2016”

Anticipation for the Holidays

As I mentioned in a previous post, my aunt and I spent a night earlier this month strolling around Downtown Salt Lake, admiring the lights it’s put on for the holiday. Continue reading “Anticipation for the Holidays”

A Quiet Thanksgiving

This Thanksgiving has been quiet for the most part. Continue reading “A Quiet Thanksgiving”

Giving for Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone in the U.S! Continue reading “Giving for Thanksgiving”

The Magic of Christmas


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Halloween Light Show

I did not think I would have a post to submit for this week’s photo challenge but there I was, Saturday night – October 29th, two days before Halloween – walking home with my aunt from a Halloween party hosted by the local ward and we encountered a light show. Continue reading “Halloween Light Show”

A Spooky Halloween Story

Happy Halloween! Continue reading “A Spooky Halloween Story”

Happy Mid-Autumn Festival


中秋节快乐!-Happy Mid-Autumn Festival! Continue reading “Happy Mid-Autumn Festival”

What is Father’s Day?

What is Father’s Day? What is this day about?

Honestly, to me, it’s just another ordinary Sunday. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced a proper Father’s Day even with my step-father. I guess we just never been the traditional type but then what’s true definition of traditional?

In the past 15 years or so, even when my step-dad was in our lives, my mom was constantly on double-duty. Then after my parents separated, my mom’s double-duty as dad became more prominent than ever before. She cooks, cleans, mows the lawns, plucks the weeds, and even joins the army, doing activities people at her age should not be doing like climbing ropes and going through rugged training.

So what is Father’s Day, really? Other than the obvious answer that it’s a day all about dad, traditional barbecue, and the great sales at home improvement stores and department stores, what is it all about?

In my opinion, yes, this is a day dedicated to fathers but it is also a day we use to thank them for everything they do for us. Isn’t that true? But wait, you say, don’t we do that everyday already? I shake my head because I feel sometimes we don’t show our appreciation enough.

So for today, give your dad a sincere thank-you, give him a hug or kiss on his husky face, and maybe watch a game with him because this day is all about the thank-yous and appreciations.

Have a happy Father’s Day and a great day! 🙂

Cee’s Black and White Challenge: Chinese Delicacy

Since Chinese New Year is coming up next Monday, for this week’s black and white challenge, I have decided to turn my pictures of this traditional Chinese Delicacy into black and white. Continue reading “Cee’s Black and White Challenge: Chinese Delicacy”

A Foodie Christmas Party

“Just how many Christmas parties will we go to this year?” I asked mom on Christmas Eve as we were about to leave for our 4th Christmas party of 2015. Continue reading “A Foodie Christmas Party”

Me and My Pies

Every year, on Thanksgiving or Christmas, I get to use the kitchen to make something no other person in my family seem to know how to make. Continue reading “Me and My Pies”

5 Things I am Grateful for…

image1I would like to thank Angela from I Am My Own Island for nominating me from way back on Thanksgiving for the Grateful Blogger Award. I will have yet another award to showcase on my Wall of Achievement. Continue reading “5 Things I am Grateful for…”

Merry Christmas Eve!

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