It’s Thanksgiving week in the U.S. Each year, I try to do a post where I list out some of the things I’m thankful for.

Last year, I was thankful for the following:
- Having a job
- Having financial stability
- Art of crochet
- Getting a standing desk
- All the audiobook that kept me sane
To be honest, I had a hard time coming up with this year’s list especially after yesterday’s announcement at work. Apparently, I will be off from Christmas Eve until the New Year and won’t return to work until the 3rd of January and the most fantastic part, all those days are paid. I immediately thought of traveling, going somewhere I’ve never been for Christmas except:
- Airfare is crazy expensive during this time of the year and
- mom insists on tagging along despite she cannot walk a 1/10 mile without complaining of leg and back pain
- none of the places I want to go is mom-approved. Basically, she doesn’t like any of the places I pick like the east and west coast, Spanish speaking regions, pot-smoking regions, and cold places. So basically, what’s left is home.
So I might as well be stuck in the prison I call home for 10 days. Nevertheless, as miserable as I have been this year, there are still some things to be thankful for. So here it is:

- Having a job with lots of overtime. I hate to say it and my mind has been playing back and forth on this one but I supposed the overtime had kept me busy in some ways over the last almost 12 months.
- I’m thankful for the one to two days a week when I get to leave home and head into the office. Those days have become my favorite days of the week because I got to interact with my co-worker instead of getting insulted from my mom.
- I’m thankful for the travel – Highway 12 from Capitol Reef to Bryce Canyon, Las Vegas, Yellowstone.
- I’m thankful for my sympathetic co-workers. They know I’m having a hard time at home dealing with my aunts and mom and they helped me a lot.
- I’m thankful for all the audiobooks and podcasts that allowed me to learn new things and kept me sane especially when working from home with my mom screaming my name every few minutes from two floors down.
- I am thankful for the opportunity to garden and grow my own vegetables even now that winter has arrived. It has taught me great lessons about being patient.
- Lastly, I am thankful for this blogging community, thankful to the regular commenters. Your comments are important to me and sometimes, reading them helped remind me I’m not alone and how I’m being treated by family members and at home is not healthy and fair.
ohhhh, what are your favorite podcasts? Always looking for good stuff. Right now I am hooked on the Dropout – curious to see what happens to Elizabeth Holmes.
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I mostly listen to history podcasts. Among my favorites are American Scandal, American History Tellers, and American Innovations. They are way better than a history class.
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ok! I will look into these!! thank you!
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I love your post and not only that but the way you appreciate God and everyone that has contributed to your lifestyles till this season. Moms will always be the same, likewise mine too. I’m happy you’re happy coping along. That’s the boldness and I admire that. Take care dear.
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Thank you, I’m glad you like it. Take care.
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Nice and honest post Yinglan. A new year is coming. Don’t just make the best of it. Take action to make it your best. Take care!
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Thank you. I’ll try, I mean, I think I’ll really try in 2022 even though it’s something I’ve been telling myself for years.
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I’ll be thinking positive thoughts for you!
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Thank you.
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She’d (Mom) have to stay home while off you go. Just sayin’. Maybe have her sign up with a group or activity.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and enjoy your time off.
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Hope your Thanksgiving was great.
Oh, I nor her family dare sign her up for any group activity. She doesn’t like groups and if it’s a group activity, it’s her way or no way at all.
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Thanks and the same to you.
I feel for you.
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Absolutely! Talking about Thanksgiving – here is my latest blog article- Feel free to check it out – – https://authorjoannereed.net/thanksgiving-day/
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