Once in a while, we all spill a few secrets, unintentionally of course, but we can’t help it. Conversations just starts and sometimes it just comes naturally. Some might think that this is just an act of nosiness. I don’t agree. In fact, I think this is an act of nosiness.
I remember earlier this year, at Chinese New Year, when mom’s friend invited me out to dinner, I ranted to her in confidence about my fight with grandparents two nights before. At least or so I thought.
Exactly a week later, when mom came back from her temporary duty in D.C. and asked her friend out to morning tea, that friend, the one I ranted to, retold the entire thing to mom. I just sat there, my face reddened and jaw dropped a little while my heart felt like it was going to pop out any minute. I was afraid to see mom’s reaction.
Fortunately, she decided to not embarrass me right there in the restaurant. She didn’t say anything. Mostly, it’s because she knew the whole thing already. I told her right after that phone call. Still though, I ranted to her friend in confidence and her friend had just spilled it out. It was like it was in the conversation either. We just walked in, sat down, and that’s the first thing she said.
After tea, mom and I got into the car. That was when she gave me the look of disapproval. “Why did you have to tell her that?” She asked me.
Yeah, why did I tell her friend the fight between me and my grandparents? Well first thing’s first, I did not expect her to blab to mom about it. I expected her to just keep it to herself. Also, mom wasn’t around, so I had to complain to someone about my failed relationship with my grandparents.
“I didn’t really tell her.” I lied.
“Really, then how did she know so much?” I shrugged. “Well, in the future, don’t tell her anything. You know she’s nosy. That’s why I don’t tell her anything about my work.”
That’s how that risky conversation ended and from then on, I just kept my mouth shut whenever I’m around that friend.
Lessons learned:
- Never complain to nosy friend. They’ll just re-tell it to someone else whenever they get a chance.
- Lying sometimes can help avoid an argument.
Have a great day! 🙂
This is Another Story 
I agree. Sometimes a lie keeps the peace. I have learned my lesson about who I tell things to. Even my roommate. I’ll tell her something concerning her son and tell her not to say anything to him and she’ll immediately go to his room and blab. Now when she asks me anything about her son I tell her I don’t know anything. Some people need to be the center of attention or just need to get some attention. If they know something you don;t know they’re happy to tell you. Good post. Well done. Lucy
LikeLiked by 1 person