Greetings! Thank you for joining me this Saturday, please come in.
So much has happened this week that it had left me with little time to catch up on blog-reading and writing.
First of all, my brand-new Galaxy s23 came on Wednesday by way of FedEx. It’s definitely nicer than the s23 FE I got from Amazon during Thanksgiving but then, the s23 costs twice more than the s23 FE. When I initial bought the s23, I thought it was a lot bigger than my s10e but I was glad to find out the difference in size was almost negligible. As long as the phone fits in my pocket, I’m find with it.
Right after I got it, I spent almost about an hour transferring everything from my old phone to the new phone. I was surprised how everything on the new phone looked like the old phone. I thought I would have to spend at least a day adjusting the settings to my liking but I didn’t have to. All the settings got transferred from the old phone. I only spent that night downloading music so I wouldn’t be using data to listen to music in the car.
The day after the arrival of my new phone was the company’s year end party. The party was held at the same place as the party in 2022 – in a movie theater. I tried out my new phone’s camera with this picture of my plate of food – a custom-made taco and a fruit tart. 😁
I definitely didn’t load up my plate as I did in 2022. Everything on that plate was delicious and for once, I didn’t overeat. I think my dietitian counselor will be proud.
The party included a screening of the newest Marvel movie. The day before, my co-workers were telling me it’s the worst movie ever produced. I thought it was pretty good or maybe it’s because I’m just a Marvel’s fan and enjoy everything from the Marvel universe.
I had two blood-draws this week – one on Monday and again on Wednesday. I haven’t had that many blood-draws in a long while. It was partly the doctor’s mistake though. I think my endocrinologist (the doctor who ordered these labs) might be getting a little senile.
I had my yearly follow-up on Wednesday and I believe I broke my personal record of having the longest conversation with a doctor ever. We spoke about so many things about life, health, etc. I guess I’m lonely and looking for someone to converse with me.
Another major snowstorm fell upon us Thursday night into Friday morning. When I went downstairs for breakfast on Friday, mom urged me again to cancel my upcoming road trip. “There will be snow on the roads,” she said, “you should cancel everything now and stay home.”
Mom is leaving on her trip to Japan in approximately 3 days (Tuesday). My road trip to Monument Valley and Arizona is in 2 weeks. Hopefully, Mother Nature doesn’t throw a curve ball.
I actually addressed my anxieties and concerns with my co-workers on Wednesday. One said, “What’s wrong with you? Everyone look forward to travel. Travel is fun.” Indeed, what’s wrong with me? Why do I dread traveling despite I actually enjoy it when I’m in the midst of it?
Perhaps, I’m just being influenced by mom. Is that why I sometimes feel like the apocalypse is upon me when I think of mom leaving? Have I been secretly dreading her leaving on her trip because of my co-dependency issues? I know I’m completely capable of taking care of myself, I’ve done it before, so why am I afraid?
#weekendcoffeeshare is hosted by Natalie of Natalie the Explorer. I appreciate you stopping by. Until next we chat. 🙂




I hope both of you enjoy your vacations
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I hope for that, too. 😀
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Thanks for sharing this amazing images. And such week Anita
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Thank you.
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I know nothing about snow. I pray the weather is kind and you are just brave and go with a happy heart. I pray that you have a fabulous time and look forward to the pictures.
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Thank you. Snow is like rain except much worse. Light snow is okay but when the snow gets to be feather-size, it’s not. You’re lucky to have no experience with snow.
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Hi YingLan,
I wish I had the words to give you peace about your trip and mom leaving.
We both know that you know you’ll be fine and enjoy both but I also know that you have challenges that make these almost scary.
But so you’ve also heard it from me – you are much stronger and wiser than you FEEL.
In this, trust in what your KNOW and push through what you FEEL.
Blessings
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Thank you, Gary. I think I’m having the same kind of moments 18-year-olds would have when they are living on their own the first time. I don’t know why I’m having these moments now despite having done this before. It might be because I’ve been under control for so long and dreaming of being free-ish that now that it’s actually happening, it feels terrifying. I know I’ll get through though. 🙂
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You can do this! And you can enjoy it! BTW, that taco looks delicious!
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Thank you. I’m currently getting through the first 24 hours without mom and it’s very weird but I think after so many years, it will take some getting used to.
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Honestly, I think it’s unfair that your mom is telling you to cancel your trip while she gets to go on her trip. Sure fearing over piles of snow is reasonable, but you can go anywhere. There are plenty of places that don’t have snow.
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I don’t think it’s as simple as snow. She told me once that she didn’t even want me to get my driver’s license if her friend didn’t convince her. She wanted me to be locked up and not go anywhere, period.
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Oh wow I am sorry to hear that. I do know a lot of parents like that — even my parents are like that to some degree. Part of it is the idea of their kids growing up is too much to handle.
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I kind of got that idea, too. It sucks because, being an only child, the parent(s) tend to look at the child like a treasure trove which they must protect it with their life for life.
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