Sofia leads this week’s Lens-Artists Photo Challenge and the topic she’s chosen is Urban Environment.
I agree with Sofia, “there are no two identical cities,” despite only been to a few cities all my life. This is Macau. I visited there in 2018 to locate my dad’s death certificate. Though people there spoke Cantonese, all of the signs also came in Portuguese as Macau was once occupied by Portugal. It’s one of those places I will probably be lost if I was visiting alone as I cannot read traditional Chinese characters nor can I comprehend Portuguese.
Even with my aunt and Google Maps, we still got lost that day, trying to locate the government office that would re-issue a death certificate. I’m still not sure whether I enjoyed this city – the non-linear roads, the crowds, the incomprehensible signs – even my GPS was confused.
Across the bridge is Changsha, China, a city in Hunan Province. It was one of the few cities I visited during my 4-month stay in China back in 2017. I think the family felt guilty of not taking me anywhere outside of my hometown during the first 10 years of my existence that my mom ordered them to take me traveling during my stay in 2017.
I stayed at a 4-star hotel that night and found out the next morning just how dog-eat-dog world this city life really was. It turned out this 4-star hotel was a popular spot for Korean tour groups. I don’t know whether it was that group of Korean and Koreans in general, but I got elbowed hard in my stomach by this mean old lady for reaching for a plate at the buffet table.
Of all the cities I’ve been to during my travel in China, I think I still like my hometown – Zhongshan – the best. It has the look of a city but the feel of a suburb. The roads are linear and if you walk around enough times, it’d become familiar. Even the people are nicer, at least, I know I never got elbowed in my hometown.
For years when I got up to go to the loo or to make coffee or check on dinner, my husband asked, “Where are you going?” My autistic self thought he was just weird so I always answered, “To China.”
Then I began to think about actually going to China. So I found a good TEFL school and trained to teach English. But, I was too late. I was already in my sixties and considered too old. I loved all Pearl Buck’s books that she wrote about China which I had read as a girl. I am definitely too old now, but not being dead, there is still hope. I enjoyed this post very much. Just wanted to share why. Xx
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I’m glad you enjoyed this post and glad I got to give you a tour.
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All these photos are gorgeous!
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Thank you.
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I enjoyed reading your stories although I have to say some people are not that nice, are they? We all feel cities in different ways, I love the streets I can get lost in…! Great photos, by the way.
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Thank you.
I think people’s behaviors are often dictated by where they came from. Perhaps these old ladies came from hard times.
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Great photos, interesting visit. Old ladies shouldn’t elbow people! Rude!!!
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Thank you. 😀 No, old ladies should not be elbowing people. 😂
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Great photos, but that lady was a mean soul…
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Thank you. I agree.
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