I cannot believe this is happening. I am officially kissing my 20’s goodbye today and can officially call myself a 30-something. The last decade has been a ride – I spent half a decade in school and most of it (9 years) working – but no matter how bad it was, I feel my life it’s just now getting bright.
Honestly, I had imagine my life be different by now. I thought I’d be married, no kids because I don’t want any due to my health conditions. I thought I’d at least find a friend or a partner or something. Instead, I have my mom who thinks I can never do anything right, a nosy aunt who pinched my arm the last time I saw so she could tell me my arm is too flappy, and another aunt who’s a crazy hugger.
Oh and I tried many methods to find that friend including online dating which just showed me how desperate these dudes were and why they can’t find a lady friend.
Anyway, it’s time to stop dwelling on the past and move on. Maybe fate will eventually intervene and find me a compatible partner but until then, I guess I’ll blow out my 30 candles and go celebrate.