As I mentioned before in a previous post, my mom visited China in October and one of the places she went to was Nanchang, a city located in the province of Jiangxi.
Continue reading “What have We become?”2 Weeks ’til Christmas, 3 Weeks ’til New Year
Can you believe this year is over already? It seemed like not long ago it was summer and then it was spring and it was winter again. Where has the time gone? Last year, I thought 2012 was going by fast already but I think 2013 went by even quicker. I guess that’s what happens when you’re going to school and working at the same time.
I’m hardly home these days comparing to the beginning of this year and last year. On Mondays and Wednesdays, I start work at around 8:15 and I would go until 7 at night. Then on Tuesdays and Thursdays, I attend my only class this semester. On Fridays, I either work or I don’t. To be honest, between homework and things screaming for my attention, I really would just like to stay home that one weekday to take care of my stuff and not my boss’s. But hey, if I don’t work, how am I supposed to pay off my debts.
So I guess I’m ending the year with some left-over tasks to complete but who doesn’t. However, what I’m looking forward to the most is that I get to spend this Christmas at home without being bothered by my students and especially the Li’s, who will be far away. Since New Year is not far off, my new year resolution would be pass all my classes and graduate.
What are you most looking forward to this holidays? I would like to hear from you!
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Sunshine Award
Thank you, Jennifer Windram for nominating me for this award. It is good to be recognized. According to Jennifer, I am to list 10 things about myself and then nominate up to 10 other bloggers for the award. Boy, that is going to a toughie to come up with 10 things about myself since I wrote just about everything in the about me page. Let’s think…
So 10 random things about me…
1. I am 22 years old and I am a fifth and last year student at the University of Utah finishing up my degree in Civil Engineering. I don’t necessarily like Civil Engineering but my mom talked me into it.
2. I am currently an English as the Second Language (ESL) tutor at Layton Christian Academy and for two other people outside school. I am also an interpreter and translator for a company here in Utah. So that’s one, two, three separate jobs but combined in one.
3. I don’t like hot weather because when you’re outside in the heat under the sun, you get hot but there’s nothing you can do about it. You can remove clothes but you’ll eventually run out and then what will you do? Go naked? In the cold weather, you can keep piling on clothes until you’re warm enough.
4. I was born in the southeast corner of China, right by Hong Kong. I came to the U.S. when I was 10 and I’ve been back about 8 years ago. My mom went back to our hometown last month and she showed me pictures. It is almost completely unrecognizable to me. I’ve live in Los Angeles for 4 years and I went there last year and there was hardly any changes.

5. I don’t like going to amusement like Disneyland. I prefer to go somewhere where I’m close to nature and not surrounded by people.
6. The thing that I want to do the most is travel. I want to go visit the old places like Rome, London, Pompeii, places that is filled with history. I am not exactly a history buff but I am still curious.
7. One of the most beautiful scenery I’ve seen is the Delicate Arch in Arches National Park at sunset. If I have a chance, I would make that 90 minutes journey to go see it again.
8. I enjoy listening to all kinds of music. You can put on almost any song and I would enjoy. The rhythm just has to be catchy for my ears.
9. I enjoy cooking and my favorite things to make are deserts. Pies, cakes, cookies, you name it and I will find a recipe and learn.
10. Last but not least, I was in the 2010 Utah Pioneer Day parade for the Chinese Society of Utah. I enjoyed it and I wish to do it again even if I have to walk miles under the July hot sun.
Now, the blogger nominations…
Here is what you have to do (According to Jennifer Windram’s post):
1. Use the Sunshine Award logo in the post.
2. Link to whoever nominated you.
3. Write ten pieces of information about yourself.
4. Nominate up to ten fellow bloggers, “who positively and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere”.
5. Leave a comment on the nominees’ blogs to tell them of the award
Good luck to you all and have fun!
The Beach
There are no words to describe what I’m feeling right now. I lean my head sideways to get a look at the dashboard to check the time for what feels like the millionth time on this trip. I wish my mom would just park the car already. Even though it’s been the most exciting day I’ve had in a while but it’s also been longest day I’ve had in a while. Right now, I have just got to get out of this hot and stuffy car.
“Why can’t they make bigger spaces?” Mom mutters frustratingly at the wheel as she passes yet another spot.
It isn’t that the spaces are too small for her 1984 Toyota Cressida, it’s because she doesn’t know how to back-in parallel park. Apparently, her friend, Simon, up in the front doesn’t want to help either. He just keeps giving her suggestions and want to take no action to help.
My mom turns on her blinker, another round, here we come, I let out a quiet moan and rest my head on the headrest. Hot flash anger ascends on the inside as I drum my fingers impatiently on the door handle. My left arm remain sweaty and pin down by the arm of the giant baby snoring soundly in the middle.
“Maybe you should just try parking in the parking lot.” Simon suggests.
Uh oh, he is one suggestion too far. All day long, he’s been making suggestions to my mom. Don’t leave the AC on in the car, it will ruin the engine. Keep the speed at 65, it’ll save some gas. I can feel my mom has just about had enough. Her grip of the wheel tightens and her eyes stare straight ahead, maybe too straight.
She is like a volcano about to blow, a grenade with the cord pulled. Don’t blow, mom. Don’t blow. I try to send the thought to her as our eyes meet in the rear view mirror. It doesn’t work.
“If there are no parking out here, there definitely not going to have any parking in the parking lot.” She snaps.
The car suddenly becomes ghostly silent. I can hear the engine humming tiredly as my mom directs the car to the end of the block again. This time, instead of turning on the right blinker, she turns on the left and swerves into the left lane. She stops at the light with her blinker still blinking.
I didn’t dare ask any questions since she is so close to losing it. I concentrate on the tic tac tic tac of the blinker and stare out the window. It’s then I suddenly realize, there isn’t anything to turn left to.
We are under a sky-walk and to the left was lined with sidewalk. Where is she going to turn left to? Has she gone crazy with anger?
The light turns green and she slams her foot on the gas pedal. The car lurches forward. She lightly taps on the brakes at the approach of the next light. The left blinker remains blinking and no one in the car dares to ask her why.
When the light turns green again, she releases the brake and lets the car slide forward. About three feet later, she stops again. What now? I wonder and lean against the window to stare at the green light.
Soon, the light turns yellow and the incoming traffic slows. Then she does something I never imagine she would do on such a narrow road. She turns the wheel several rounds and steps on the gas. In a matter of seconds, we are on the other side of the road.
My heart pounds with fear and adrenaline while she executed the turn. It is by far the most thrilling thing I have experienced on this trip and it takes my mind off that we’ve been circling the block for 45 minutes looking for a parking space.
After the turn, she resumes her position in the right lane and lightly dips on the gas to cruise the car smoothly on the road. That smooth driving was soon interrupted when she suddenly slams her foot on the brakes propelling me forward. Thank god I wore my seat belt.
This time I know exactly what’s happening, she has found a large enough parking space. She switches on the right blinker to signal the cars behind her as she slowly steered the car head-on into the space. I sigh with relief as I press the release button on my seat belt with my free hand.
I open the door and step out, sliding my left arm from under the snoring kid in the middle. It is unbelievable that what happened just now didn’t wake him. He let out a sound that resembled a pig as I slide my left arm from under his arm.
I roll my eyes and step onto the sidewalk. My sleeping legs wobble beneath me while my arms numb and sweaty swing freely beside me like noodles. A short time later, I lift my arms and stretch to the sky, shaking off the numbness from sitting in a car for the last two hours.
“This is Huntington Beach. Everybody, please follow me.” My mom calls after everyone are out of the car.
I walk behind everyone and glad to see my mom’s mood lightened. After we cross the street, She was once again chatting with her friends. By the time we hit the sand, excitement course through me again as I immediately take off running toward the water. I’ve been waiting for this moment all day, ever since mom said we were going to beach this afternoon.
When I finally reach the water, I let the cool breeze come over me as I marvel the beauty and endlessness of the ocean. I finally made it. I stretched my arms into the sky and whispered, I am here.
Image: shellycalcagno.wordpress.com
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Can my English be declining or is it just my imagination?
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Traditional Chinese New Year Delicacy
A Wild Wild January

It is finally February, the weather in January this year had been so wild. As I was watching the weather report last night on the news, I couldn’t help thinking that I actually experienced that. I mean last year was so warm and dry that we experienced drought in the summer. Last month alone, there were 20 something days of snow, 30 days of haze and fog, and 1 day of freezing rain. Not to mention the subzero temperatures that are rarely faced in Salt Lake City. Worst of all, I had to take 2 weather days off school, which I’d never had to do.
Still, as I saw the snow pack total on the news last night, I just couldn’t believe when the weatherman announced that the snowpack total is only 84% for the month of January. I was like, 84%, the snow piles are as tall as a person outside my home. Someone in my neighborhood even had enough snow to make a large cute snow dog.
This picture was taken early January, trust me, there is a whole lot more now. Even this week alone, we received about half of foot of snow. Well, it’s been snowing nonstop from Sunday to Wednesday, what do you expect. Yesterday was started to get better and hopefully it will continue this way. I am so tired from shoveling all this snow that I am ready for it to end and hope that there won’t be another freezing rain storm soon.
This winter had been a long one and I am looking forward for it to end. By the way, did anyone catch the news about Ground Hog Day on Saturday? How soon will Spring Be here?












